Control Drama’s
Human beings are addicted to drama, which they create
either consciously or on a subconscious level. Why do we create drama? As
energy beings, we are constantly looking to acquire more energy.
A control drama, as depicted in The Celestine Prophecy
by James Redfield, is played by anyone who is low on spiritual energy, to
manipulate and steal the energy of another.
This spiritual energy is absolutely critical for our survival, and lack
thereof is the prime cause of ALL conflict in the world.
When two people begin an interaction, their energy
fields merge into one and there comes the issue of, who is going to control
this energy? If one can get the other to
accept their point of view, and see the world as he see’s it, then he has
captured both energies, resulting in an instant feeling of euphoria, power, and
security.
All of these positive feelings are won at the expense
of another person, who then feels off center, anxious and drained of energy. All
of these control drama's originate from your childhood, as a defensive measure
to counteract the control drama's that your parents played to steal energy from
you.
There are 4
types of control drama's:
- Intimidator
- Interrogator
- Aloof
- ‘Poor Me’
Intimidator
For many kids growing up, one or both parents would
take a stance of intimidation, and entice their child into feeling afraid and
powerless.
They would yell
at you, scream at you, and ultimately send you to your room, leaving you
feeling weak, powerless and drained of energy.
Struggles like these can often be very intense and
even traumatic for a child, and as a result, you developed your own control
drama to fight back for that energy.
Most respond at first with a 'poor me' drama, where one creates a guilt
trip for the intimidator, and if they respond to this, the child will get
energy in return, and will continue using that style of control drama
throughout their life.
But if the 'poor me' posture goes unnoticed, the only
remaining option for the child is to explode into an intimidator themselves, in
attempts to regain their stolen energy.
Once this works, the child will exploit the intimidator stance regularly
when they're low on energy.
An intimidator may be a very loud and talkative person
who tries to force you to give them your attention (energy) by listening to
what they have to say.
They may also be the type of person, who leaves you
finding yourself looking over your shoulder, to see where they are and what
they will do next. Devoting your
conscious attention to figuring out where someone is, or what they will do,
creates a flow of energy to that person.
Interrogator
An Interrogator is someone who criticizes another,
probing, into their world with the specific purpose of finding something wrong.
Once this is found they pounce, and criticize this aspect
of another’s life. This type of control
drama will leave you feeling self-conscious around the interrogator,
wondering what they are thinking.
If your parents acted this way, you may have interrogated
in return, or developed the aloof’s front – lacking concern and sympathy – in hopes
they would feel like the interrogation is falling and a resultant energy transfer
would occur in your favor. Whichever one worked on your parents would be the
same one you use prevalently throughout your life, to this very day.
Aloof
The aloof control drama is perpetrated by distancing
oneself from situations and spontaneously acting out to gather people's attention
and energy.
If your parents were distant from you as a child, you
were not receiving enough of the nurturing, and loving energy as a child may
require.
The control drama you may have developed to end the
distancing would most likely be that of The Interrogator. You would criticize a characteristic or behavior
of theirs to end the distancing, and subsequently, steal the energy you needed
from them.
Poor Me
The 'Poor Me' drama is characterized by creating a
guilt-trip towards another person, in turn making them feel at fault, resulting
in the much-desired transfer of energy.
Typically, this type of person is quiet, often
anxiously waiting for someone to come and ask them what's wrong.
If someone does come and ask what's wrong, this
attention is then exchanged. Attention
is energy; thoughts are energy; and thus, somebody thinking of you translates
into energy received.
If this doesn't work for the person, often one will
attempt the Aloof control drama until their 'energy tank' is replenished, and
their insecurities are temporarily forgotten.
The Bottom Line: There is a constant battle between
people to steal each other's energy.
This matter of energy is the cause of
ALL conflict in the world and the reason that people
feel the need to control others. No
human being can evolve until they become consciously aware of the drama they
use to manipulate others for energy.
What drama or drama's you use (it could be
more than one) to manipulate for energy?
Source: stoptherobbery.com - Accelerating Human Evolution
